5.09.2012

Target Wednesday? & Girl talk.


Whoopsie! I was a little late on getting my Target Tuesday post together!
Soooo today I'm sharing just a few of the things i've got my eyes on!


This is ADORABLE!
love the color.

This is the dress my friend had on at
her baby shower!
It's sooo pretty in person!

Obsessed.
I need new blazers.

Summer shirt.

Arent all of those items just great?
I think so. :]

It has been so rainyyyy here,
which means I am in FULL lazy mode.
I watched 3 movies yesterday...THREE.
By myself...
That never happens.
I'm so ADD I can hardly watch 1 movie by myself.
(And I mean literally, like I take medication haha)
But I did it, and I multitasked during all 3! haha

I ended up watching The Vow, which I was thrilleeedddd about!
Rachel McAdams = Favorite actress
Channing Tatum = 2nd Favorite Actor
I just KNEW it was gonna be a good one.
Anddddddd Kyle actually surprised me & came over so we got to watch it together!!
Eeeeeee!
He NEVER watches love movies with me! And I mean never.
We cuddled & talked & watched the movie together.
I love this boy to death.


DISCLAIMER: it's about to get all romantic & lovey up in here.


During the movie we were having a side conversation,
talking about this business that he wants to start,
and we started talking about me & how I'm shy when I'm around people I dont know,
 and how I cant just go up to random people & start talking to them.
and I said, "Well I can if I have my best friends around me!"
He kind of just stared at me smiling.
and said, "Am I your best friend?"
I thought about it....
"yes"
Kyle: "Because you're my best friend." "I mean it."
I immediately felt this sense of relief.
Like deep down I've always known that he is truly my best friend.
But i've almost been embarrassed about it,
Like for real what dumb girl really has their boyfriend for a best friend?
Well, I DO!
Plus we've been together for over 4 years now, so you can go ahead & say we're married.
haha.
But anyways, I guess I've never wanted to say it because I thought that HE would think I'm a weirdo.
Like, "woah my girlfriend needs to get out & make more friends"
But he didnt, and he genuinely felt the same way.
It was seriously awesome.
I know i've mentioned this before, but Kyle isnt the type of guy to get all lovey dovey
and stare into each others eyes and blah blah blah.
He's just real, and I love that about him SO much.
Cuz when those "lovey dovey" moments happen,
They're SO much more meaningful because I know that those are real genuine feelings.

This may sound so disgustingly cheesy & weird to some of you.
Some of you probably think it's totally weird & obsessive to think that you're boyfriend is your BFF.
Well, Kyle is honestly the only person I can fully trust.
(besides my family)
Kyle has never betrayed me, unlike most of my friends.
He is literally ALWAYS there for me, unlike most of my friends.
and he loves me more than I could have ever imagined anyone loving me.
Now I'm not bashing my friends by any means!
But I'm just clarifying to yall why I can honestly say that he is my best friend.
I consider myself extremely lucky.
He's not perfect, but neither am I.
<3

Well enough with all the love talk.
My family is coming in on Friday and I am BEYOND excited to see them!
It has been waaaaayyy too long.
Oh, and I might have a really cool post for yall on Monday.
Just maybe.
We'll see how things work out ;]

Hooray for Wednesday, the week is half way over!!



17 comments:

  1. Awwww so cute, and honestly I don't think you are silly at all. I think that a boyfriend needs to be a best friend, because he should be your companion. My bf is one of my best friends and I believe I am one of his too.

    To me breakups from my past have been so hard because I felt like I was losing a best friend. I was okay with not having the hand holding and sweetness of a boy, but I missed that best friend connection.

    "Love is a friendship caught on fire!" xoxo

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  2. Love that cute blazer from Target!! :)

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  3. Great pics from Target! Really liking the first and second items.
    That's such a sweet moment you guys had! It's totally ok that he is your BFF. @RevRunWisdom said "Ladies: Find ur lover & friend & your ready for marriage. Friendship caught on fire is what love is."

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  4. That is so sweet, your bf should be your best friend!

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  5. I'll take that dress please! ;) And he SHOULD be your BFF, that's not weird at all! My now-husband has been my best friend for years. Sure I've got great girls friends, but he's my #1 supporter and my rock! :)

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  6. Definitely not weird at all! My hubs has been my best friend for as long as I've known him. I think it just makes your relationship that much more wonderful! Have a great time with your fam this weekend!!

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  7. I have to go to Target now! :) Just wanted to let you know that I am having a giveaway on my blog. Please check it out. Thanks.

    http://seekvintage.blogspot.com

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  8. ummm i need that blazer pronto!

    and yes your bf/someday husband SHOULD be your BFF. hands down.
    check out this post, it's SPOT on.
    http://emphasisadded.tumblr.com/

    happy wednesday!!

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  10. I could have written this exact post word for word. Yay for boyfriend best friends! Well mine is now my husband but same difference :)

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  11. I love the Target picks! I need to go shopping again & finish spending all of my money! HAHA! & you & Kyle are not crazy or weird or anything else. I have my best girlfriends that will always be my best friend but, Matt too is my best friend - just in a different way. It totally makes sense & that's so awesome for y'all!

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  12. Monica this is just crazy. Like my boyfriend's name is Kyle too and he is most definetly my best friend as well. We have been together a lil over 7 years now and you can def say we are basically married. We did take a break for a little while last year but it was the best thing for us. We have been together since high school! and honestly we totally needed just to find out who we were without the relationship ya know! but i totally know what you mean when you say hes your best friend. I tell my Kyle everything and he knows everything about my life! So yes he is my best friend, I confide in him and he confides in me :)

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  13. We just watched The Vow last night! Such a sweet movie...and how sweet of your boyfriend :)
    I love the dress and blazer you picked, too!

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  14. All your target pics are so cute!! I need to take a trip to Target soon!

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  15. I know exactly what you mean, because that's how Will and I are. That's true love boo <3 Most people don't understand because true REAL love is very hard to find...I'm so happy you have! I want to see The Vow!!

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  16. He should be your best friend! Whats the point in spending so much time with someone and putting your whole heart into a relationship if they're not your best friend! My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and he is, hands down, my best friend and I wouldn't want it any other way! It's completely healthy so don't think you're weird!

    And I love that dress! I wanted to buy is so badly yesterday at Target, but they didn't have it in my size...boo!

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  17. I love your blog. I think we should follow each other - http://amyklundt.blogspot.com/.

    Much Love

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